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以前、島田洋七が「金を貸す時ってのは「あげた」と思わなきゃ。貸した側は貸したことをとっとと忘れる。借りた人間が覚えてりゃいいんだから」と言っていた。

昔、中国の偉い人が日本の政治家に向かってこう言ったらしい。「我々、中国人は(戦時中、日本が中国にしたことを)忘れるよう努力します。だからあなた方日本人は忘れないように努力してください」





人が人に何かしてあげるというのは、まさにそういうルールにのっとってのことだと思う。してあげる側はしてあげたらしてあげたことをとっとと忘れるべきで、してもらった人間はしてもらったことを決して忘れず、覚えておいて、その都度その都度、心からの気の利いたお返しをしていけば良いんだと思う。

だが、世の中には人に何かしてあげるたびに、それを「いつか使えるだろう」などと呟いて、いずれ口論などの際に自分の主張を通す為の切り札として出せるよう心の金庫に保管してしまう人がいる。そして、かつて自分が何かしらしてあげた人間が自分に対して何か苦言を呈してきた場合に、ニヤリ、この切り札を金庫から取り出し机上に叩き付けて「あの時、あなたを助けてあげたのは一体どこの誰でしたかねえ」などとヤクザなことを言って相手を黙らせて、黙っている相手、身動きのとれなくなった相手を数々の言葉で犯す。ということを繰り返す。これは犯罪じゃないのか?ルール違反にもほどがあるだろう。

してもらった人間は、してもらったことを覚えている限り、してくれた人間に対して引け目を感じているし頭があがらない。小さくなる。そんな人間に対しては、もししてあげたことを覚えていたとしても「忘れたあ」的に振る舞うのがルール、優しさで、ことあるごとに切り札をチラつかせるなんてのは本当にヤクザの手口だと思う。

優しさというのは器の大きさの問題だと思う。器の大きな人間はそんな下品な切り札をコレクションしたりしない。ま、そんな奴はいずれ、放っといても孤立するんだろうし、孤立してしまってから助けを求めても誰も助けに来んのだろうけども。

自業自得だ。

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考えさせられ、内容ですね。

自分の奥底に、渦巻く小さな隠(イン)何かに、爆発したら止まらない。怨み節の一つだろう。

日本人は、義理と人情。
この義理が難しい。
ありがとうの前に、義理を返し申し訳無い。ごめんなさい。
ありがとう。だけで好いはずなのに。

尊敬語?解らん。
ま〜ぁ。

日本語は難しいが、好きですね。

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